ROAR Resources


Healing Trauma, Healthy Relationships, Anti-Oppression


Deeper Dimensions Blog

Candyce Ossefort-Russel is one of the folks I’ve been so lucky to learn from. Her blog, Deeper Dimensions, and weekly newsletter is amazing. Start with her 6-Part Series on Emotion, here.

 

Carescapes

Margeaux Feldman is a gem and has so many really lovely offerings. I’m enjoying their weekly newsletter Carescapes on substack. And I love their offerings on Instagram as @softcore_trauma.

 

Yolanda Renteria’s Workshops

Yolanda makes complex therapy topics easy to understand. She offers several affordable, on-demand workshops, and is another person with an amazing Instagram, @thisisyolandarenteria.

 

Dr. Alexandra Solomon’s E-Courses

I’ve personally benefitted from Intimate Relationships 101, and she offers a few excellent e-courses. She also has a podcast and has written several excellent books. 

 

The Nap Ministry

When I need help for resisting capitalism, Tricia Hersey’s work is where I go. You can find her on Instagram @thenapministry.


ROAR's Favorite Books


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Healing Trauma

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk

My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem

Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body by Peter Levine

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristen Neff


Healing Relationships

Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse by Jackson MacKenzie

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy (workbook) by Lindsay C. Gibson

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix


Sexual Healing

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by adrienne maree brown

The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

*Virgin: The Untouched History by Hanne Blank

Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want by Alexandra Solomon

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner


Anti-Oppression

*Privilege, Power, and Difference by Allan G. Johnson

The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor

Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot by Mikki Kendall

The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander

How To Be An Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi

*salt. by Nayyirah Waheed

Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Amelia Nagoski and Emily Nagoski

The Revolution Will Not Be Funded: Beyond the Non-Profit Industrial Complex by INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence


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